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成长中的姚婉莹 The Growing Path for YAO Wanying
来源:中科育才学校 Zhong Ke Yu Cai School 作者:刘小凤 LIU Xiaofeng, 时间:2011-11-30

    她,一个小女孩,在成长过程中,从性格孤僻变得活泼开朗,从曾经的经常哭哭啼啼变为敢于鼓起勇气面对困难,从人云亦云的茫然变成自有主见。她就是我们“加油”夏令营四班的孩子——姚婉莹。
    姚婉莹于2000年出生于四川省南充市高庙乡。她个子不算高,比较瘦,但看起来很有精神。见过她的人都说她长的好看,是个漂亮姑娘。由于父母都在当地一家木材加工厂打工,她就跟随父母住在离学校较远的这个工厂内,其父母在木材厂为每月仅有的基本工资而辛苦劳作,为了给她创造一个较好的学习环境,她妈妈还每天骑电瓶车接送她上学、放学。
    这样的成长历程使得姚婉莹同学性格偏向孤僻,在家也不是很听家长的话,学习也不是很积极,但经过夏令营的集中训练,这个孤僻的女孩渐渐的打开了心扉,慢慢的与同学、老师们能和睦相处。
    记得在一次夏令营兵乓球游戏中,姚婉莹同学所在的红队输掉了比赛,在我们分享的过程中,她哭了。看到她眼泪掉下来的那一瞬间,我明白了,她虽然平时不怎么说话,也不怎么与同学沟通,但是内心是很渴望的。接下来的每一天,姚婉莹同学在一天一天的变化着。
    现在,我们能随时看到她脸上灿烂的笑容,也随时都能看到她与其她同学一起玩耍,关系非常融洽。
    在这一次月考中,她的成绩虽然不是班上最好的,但是比起以前,的确有很大的进步。在一次不经意的谈话中,姚婉莹同学告诉我:“我现在懂得了我们要勇敢地面对生活中的一切,我不会再像以前那样,遇到困难就选择放弃,我会更加的努力,请老师看我的变化吧!”
    这,就是夏秋之间国际美慈组织给这个女孩带来的变化,这个女孩还在她生命的旅途中继续前行,让我们共同期待、共同祝福!

She is a little girl who has gone from a lonely personality to a lively and outgoing character. She used to be bad tempered and dependent on others to help her. But now she is brave enough to face difficulties and makes her own decisions. She is YAO Wanying, a student in Class four of “Let’s Go” summer camp.

YAO Wanying was born in Gaomiao Village, Nanchong, Sichuan Province in 2000.  She is not tall, and looks thin but is energetic. Her parents now work in a log factory in north suburban Chengdu and make a limited salary from a heavy load work.  Yao Wanying lives with her parents in a temporary shelter in the factory area far away from her school.  Life is tough for the family.

Growing up in this environment has made Yao lonely and difficult to get along with. She was not happy with her parents at home and was not active in learning. However, after intensive training from this summer camp, she has turned from a lonely to an open-hearted little girl, gradually getting along well with her classmates and teacher.

I still remember one time during a table tennis game in summer camp when Yao’s team lost - she cried and I understood at that moment that she’s been longing to do this but was unable to talk and communicate with her classmates. Since then Yao has been making progress day by day.

Now we can see her smiling face all the time and she plays with others comfortably.

In this monthly exam, she showed significant improvement even if she was not the top one in class. During a casual conversation with her, she said, “I now understand we have to face everything in life bravely; I won’t just give up like before when I encounter difficulties; I will work even harder and you will see my changes.”

This is the change Mercy Corps brought to this girl this summer. She will continue on this journey and let’s wish her all the best!


 



 


姚婉莹同学(照片来源:国际美慈组织)




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